Life is easy, made difficult by people. With so much you wish to do with your one life, you strive for one thing above all else; validation. When you’re born, you simply want what you want as you look upon all things with new eyes. Trying to attain, and obtain those things becomes our goal in life. As we age beyond being toddlers, we do not change much, but do learn we want our guardians to look favorably upon us. We want to be validated.