“ But, then I thought I can only speak for men. I cannot say what’s going on in a women’s heart or why do they cheat”

The answer is so scary you may not want to accept it. First, keep in mind, you cannot speak for me. You can, speak for yourself and on behalf of what you have factually observed; nuance included.

Why do women cheat? For the same damn reason men cheat. The “reasoning” may be altered a bit, but the sick truth is: Men and women cheat due to opportunity, lack of inhibition, and direct fear. Both sides fear getting played/cheated on, so they cheat first. Some simply and harmlessly love the gender they are attracted to, but want to also settle down, and in this jacked-up society, they can’t openly do both, without being harshly judged. Some cheat because they are lonely and want that one or few things they can’t get at home, but by interacting with their gender interest, they grow fond and go beyond simply talking. Some cheat for petty reasons such as, “my friend told me such-and-such so I went out and got mine.” That’s all cultures, genders, races, and sexes. Some are not meant to be in a 1-on-1 relationship and some are meant for it. Everyone, is wired to be in some form of social interaction. Sadly, society controls in the dumbest way possible.

Thank you for taking the time to hear me out on both retorts. I want better, but better can’t happen, if we keep pushing the old narratives.

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